Saturday, April 25, 2009

One hundred percent success rate against adversity.


We all know that our lives can be challenging. Sometimes we sabotage ourselves and our future, sometimes life gets in our way. Yet when you really think about it we are all 100 percent successful at overcoming adversity. Right?

Of course we are. Sometimes in the moment the outcome isn't what we envisioned or hoped for; however if you take a moment to reflect - the simple act of moving past the challenge and being in a different place in life means you overcame....right?

I have heard some of the most highly regarded practitioners in the self improvement industry say that everything happens for a reason. One thing I have learned over my life is that when in the moment of adversity it likely feels like the end of the world, the reality is further down the road when I reflect on that situation I more often than not see that it was a tremendous opportunity for my personal or professional growth and provided for an opportunity I never would have seen.

So are you facing a particular challenge right now? What do you think your lesson is in the moment? What opportunities do you see as a result of where you are right now? Are you trying to figure it out on your own or have you called in reinforcements?

My good friend and colleague Betsy Talbot recommended to me some time ago to put together a "Board of Direction", as she describes it as "a group of peers who help you flesh out ideas and problem solve, giving you honest feedback when you need it most."

Make a commitment to identify what is standing between yourself and the success you desire. Call a meeting of your Board of Direction - present to them the challenges and opportunities you see ahead of you - ask for their feedback. Create an action plan and share it with those you know support you and wish for you all the success you deserve.

Remember obstacles are really opportunities in disguise.

No comments:

Post a Comment